Tuesday, 13 June 2017
After a busy few days of lots of playing (and lots of cuddles and sitting in sunny gardens and tourist-ing), I am feeling very lovely and blissful and chilled.
As someone who can get stressed and who sometimes finds life a bit challenging, I've often wondered what it is about spanking and BDSM play that makes me feel so utterly blissed out.
And then I realised: BDSM is basically just an extreme form of mindfulness.
Don't believe me? Well, look at the picture above and then compare it with this one:
I mean, are they really so different??
Right, well this is how I see it (feel free to disagree!):
Corner time = meditation
Impact play (including spanking) = focusing on nothing but the present moment (which is pretty much the definition of mindfulness)
Maiding = being of service (which is an element of quite a few meditation retreats)
Bondage = basically yoga with added rope
Sex = sex (because sex is just awesome whatever!)
See? No wonder I feel so good... :-).